Emotion, passion and desire draw most partners together.
Some are drawn together through a conscious knowing.
We do not find love, it finds us when we are ready.
Relationships are meant to evolve consciously.
Those that do not wither like rotten fruit on a vine.
A love relationship is not the end, but the beginning.
There are good times and there will be difficult ones too.
Just because two people fall in love or have a relationship does not mean they have arrived.
Learning to surrender our ego in a partnership can be difficult.
Pushing each others buttons from time to time is common and so is deflecting blame onto the other party.
Love is a battlefield of two ego’s learning to trust and surrender the need to be in control.
All relationships survive on humility or they do not.
It is coming to understand that your partner is a mirror into which you can see yourself. Who you really are.
If we are a person filled with fear and needing to control our relationship will be full of conflict.
It may not survive, many do not survive.
If we are a person that owns our fears and does not project them onto our partner, there is a chance we may learn and the relationship survive.
Conflict and difficulty are in the nature of relationships to help us discover and heal.
The true purpose of relationship is not just to fill desire, but to consciously evolve, transcend desire and share a deep awareness of life and each other.
In the beginning of a relationship we are drawn by desire, but for it to grow and thrive it must continue on awareness.
The mystery of love is only revealed and shared between two people who are aware.
In oneness there is no desire, only a common awareness, equally shared and uplifting to each other.
Fear and the need for control destroy all good relationships.
It is awareness that can heal them.
Robert.
AMEN…Now, let’s see how these facts settle with couples. Relationships can be tricky but can work with good communication. We have to be willing to take the good with the bad, have patience, respect, loyalty and understanding. Not one of us is perfect, we all have our flaws. But, if you love and truly care for each other, then a relationship can be a magical voyage which both individuals growing together as a couple. Thank you