Most arguments or fights are simply projections of the unconsciousness of one or both persons.
Hidden in the projections are valuable insights into the hidden beliefs and ideas we all carry within.
Fights occur because one or both person’s ego’s feel threatened or misunderstood.
Every argument or fight has a gem hidden within it, but both parties need to step back and accept responsibility for their emotions. It is not easy.
Behind their emotions is fear and an issue to be uncovered and understood.
We will not survive a relationship without conflict at some time and hurt comes with disagreements, but we will never grow and overcome them until we also learn forgiveness.
A loving relationship is built on a continuous dose of forgiveness of yourself and the other.
Robert
I think this one is especially insightful and true. Would that we all followed your advice.