Both the male and the female ego seek completion in the opposite sex.
It is the magnetic and sexual urge toward the other.
On an ego level this is seen as lust and desire.
On a conscious level it is the urge to oneness.
It is the universal desire to be whole.
What a man or woman is seeking in the other is fulfillment and completion.
It is an urge deeper than just physical lust or attraction.
All of life seeks to be one or whole again.
Even the physical differences between male and female.
Subconsciously symbolize what they seek in each other.
The male needs to feel, be nurtured and find the mother within.
To learn to love and not feel the need to control.
He needs a reason to open his heart.
To realize it is safe to become vulnerable.
The female is seeking a worthy partner in whom she can trust.
To share with him the mysteries of life and love.
To make her feel safe and secure so she can trust.
A man who will walk into the oneness of understanding love with her.
Both are subconsciously seeking completion within the other.
The key that opens the door is love.
Not lust, imagination, or physical and mental attraction.
Love keeps lovers honest.
It does not play games.
If it is real it demands honesty, integrity and truthfulness.
If you know you know it is love,
It feels like home, every touch confirms it.
If not then you are still playing the game.
Lovers don’t play games.
They are playing for keeps.
Robert.
That sounds about right, Robert✨