We hold ourselves back through judgement and its beatdown.
Instead of growing and learning naturally as life intended we have accepted rules, laws and commandments of others who use them as guilt bait.
We have lost trust in ourselves and life to do and know the right thing.
They hold us back and create a belief in what is wrong with us.
Why not create rules, laws and commandments about the good in us?
Why not find the good in us first and help that garden to grow.
Everyone has flaws, needs to grow and needs to discover the harm that judgement does to them.
Yes, there are those whose actions must be judged, but we do not have to take that judgement upon us.
They too were given choices to grow, but did not.
We all have choices we can make about how to live our lives.
Judgement does not permit us the freedom to change and grow.
Robert.
So so true.