The Path to Healing is Conflict

Resistance Is Futile

No one enjoys conflict, especially lovers. To see and emotionally feel open hearts collapse in a pile of emotional blubber is painful.

How and why does it have to happen we ask ourselves? Where did our love go?

At first in the emotional aftermath, it is not apparent and for days both parties will be silent nursing hurt feelings, if they are lucky.

Conflict with either strengthen our ego’s or expose hidden fear and resistance to change. The ego never will agree to change willingly.

In the midst of conflict or pain we are given a choice or become aware of it, either we can stand strong and continue to fight and eventually leave or surrender to the possibility we may be wrong and missing something. It is a very uncomfortable place to be.